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Wedding Ring Found After Toilet Flush


Wedding Ring Found After Toilet Flush - An Idaho woman was reunited with her diamond wedding ring just in time for her 25th anniversary.

Mechelle Rieger, 44, set her wedding ring on a privacy wall in her bathroom 18 months ago as she stood up to flush the toilet.


"It was slow motion. That ring bounced off, landed in the toilet just as it was flushing down and it just took off," she told ABC News. "It was long gone."

Rieger said her husband took apart the toilet and pipes, but her ring was nowhere to be found. The next day she called the Kuna, Idaho, city offices.

"I was just hysterical and the guy said my chances of getting it back were very slim," she said.

Rieger's $6,000 ring was insured and she was able to get a replacement, but it just wasn't the same.

"I started out with a tiny one-third diamond cut ring when I got married and I gradually updated it and this ring was it," she said.

Sewage workers found the ring this week and returned it to Kuna City Hall.

Local news stations picked up the report and Rieger received an excited call from a friend telling her a ring was found in her old neighborhood.

After printing her original appraisal report and a photo of the ring, Rieger visited Kuna City Hall. The ring was a match.

"Poor thing is in bad shape but the diamonds are still as sparkly as ever," she said. "I'm hoping I can get it wearable before my anniversary." ( ABC News Blogs )

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Swedish Woman Finds Lost Wedding Ring on a Carrot


Swedish Woman Finds Lost Wedding Ring on a Carrot - A Swedish woman got the surprise of a lifetime when she pulled a small carrot out of her garden at home. Fit snugly around the carrot was the wedding ring she had lost 16 years ago.

Lena Paahlsson told the Swedish newspaper Dagens Nyheter that she "had given up hope" that she would ever find the ring she had lost in 1995, according to the BBC.

The ring, a white gold band with seven small diamonds, had been designed by Paahlsson herself. She had been doing some Christmas baking with her daughters when the ring disappeared so many years ago, the BBC reports.

The family looked everywhere and eventually even had the kitchen floor pulled up during renovations in the hope of finding the ring.

It wasn't until recently, while Paahlsson was gardening at her farm in central Sweden, that she found the long-lost ring around a carrot.

"The carrot was sprouting in the middle of the ring. It was quite incredible," Paahlsson's husband, Ola Paahlsson, told the paper.

The couple believes the ring could have been lost in vegetable peelings that were turned into compost, according to the BBC. The ring no longer fits Paahlsson, but she is planning to have it resized.

"Now that I have found the ring again, I want to be able to use it," Lena Paahlsson told the paper. ( ABC News Blogs )

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Is Libya being bombed by bloody U.S. Zio thugs because Gaddafi wants to introduce gold dinar?


Is Libya being bombed by bloody U.S. Zio thugs because Gaddafi wants to introduce gold dinar? - The present World Economic Crisis has forced a number of governments to consider introduction of an interstate gold currency, writes a minor Russian oligarch Sterligov on his blog.

Since gold yuan coinage was announced by China, talks about the gold standard had been brought up in the Middle East. The main initiator of non-payment in dollars and euros is the Leader and Guide of the Revolution in Libya, Colonel Muammar Gaddafi. He called on Arab and African world to adopt a single current - the gold dinar.


On this financial basis, Colonel Gaddafi offered to create a single African state with Arab and Black African population numbering 200 million people.



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The idea of creating a single gold currency and uniting the countries of Africa into one powerful federal system has been actively supported during the last year by a number of Arabic and almost all African states. Democracy-infested South Africa and the Arab League opposed to the idea.


The US and the EU reacted very negatively to such a initiative. According to a French Zio "president" Sarkozy, "the Libyans have set on the financial security of mankind." Repeated calls by the Leader of the Libyan Revolution yields some results: Gaddafi has made more and more steps aimed at creating a United Africa.


Two false arguments have been invented to cover up the true reason for the present Zio-Christian Crusade against Libya: officially - "to defend human rights" and unofficially - an attempt to steal oil from the Libyan people. Both of these arguments do not hold up to scrutiny.


The truth is that Colonel Muammar Gaddafi decided to repeat the attempts by French General de Gaulle to abandon the use of U.S. junk paper money called "dollars" and return to gold, i.e. he attempts to attack the chief power of modern parasitic Zio Democracy - the banking system.
( kavkazcenter.com )


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Grandmother and boy pulled from rubble NINE DAYS after tsunami smashed city


Grandmother and boy pulled from rubble NINE DAYS after tsunami smashed city - A teenager told yesterday how he battled for nine days to save his 80-year-old grandmother after they were trapped in their home when it was smashed by the tsunami.

Jin Abe, 16, wrapped Sumi Abe in blankets to keep her warm, putting his own welfare at risk. All he had to keep out the bitter cold and snow were towels.

Yesterday Jin and Mrs Abe were pulled from the wreckage of their home in the flattened city of Ishinomaki, about 30 miles from Sendai.


Rescued at last: Sumi Abe after being pulled from the wreckage of her home

Rescued at last: Sumi Abe after being pulled from the wreckage of her home

Rescuers help 80-year-old Sumi Abe. She and her 16-year-old grandson Jin were pulled from the rubble in the city of Ishimaki after nine days

Rescuers help 80-year-old Sumi Abe. She and her 16-year-old grandson Jin were pulled from the rubble in the city of Ishimaki after nine days

The teenager his hooked up before being airlifted to hospital. He and his grandmother were found buried in the kitchen of their home

The teenager his hooked up before being airlifted to hospital. He and his grandmother were found buried in the kitchen of their home


Rescuers found them after hearing a cry from Jin, who had struggled to reach the only sign of daylight in the wreckage.

When the rescue team reached him by clambering up a ‘hillside’ of wood he was in a state of collapse, but managed to whisper: ‘There’s someone else inside who needs help – she’s my grandmother.’

To their astonishment, the police team found Mrs Abe alive and coherent, complete with intact spectacles – but trapped under furniture that had fallen onto her.

Ignoring his own welfare for the sake of the old lady, Jin had begun to suffer from a low body temperature, which can lead to a collapse of vital organs and death.

There was a little food in the refrigerator and they also had some water. There was no mobile phone signal so Jin waited patiently with his grandmother before he decided that, with no sign of help, something had to be done. ‘I managed to push away the rubble and work my way up to the roof through a small hole,’ he said.

Before she and her grandson were hoisted from the debris into a helicopter, the old lady said: ‘I’m all right. I have a pain in my leg because something fell on it, but otherwise I have no complaints.’


two pulled from rubble in japan

One of the survivors is transported from a helicopter at Ishinomaki Red Cross hospital in Ishinomaki, Miyagi prefecture

Rescuers sift through the remains of a property in the suburb of Natori, Miyagi Prefecture, Japan

The two people rescued had had responded to shouts from a police rescue team. Rescuers sift through the remains of a property in the suburb of Natori, Miyagi Prefecture, Japan.


At Ishinomomaki's Red Cross hospital, where the survivors had been taken, a spokesman said they were receiving treatment.

'I had only a glimpse of the elderly woman, who had her eyes closed,' said the spokesman. 'She didn't appear to be dead.'

The remarkable news comes as authorities today announced they had restored power to the Fukushima plant.

Three hundred engineers have been struggling inside the danger zone to salvage the six-reactor plant in the world's worst nuclear crisis since Chernobyl 25 years ago.

'I think the situation is improving step by step,' Deputy Chief Cabinet Secretary Tetsuro Fukuyama told a news conference.

The workers, braving high radiation levels in suits sealed in duct tape, managed to connect power to the No. 2 reactor, crucial to their attempts to cool it down and limit the leak of deadly radiation, Kyodo news agency said.

It added that plant operator Tokyo Electric Power Company (TEPCO) aimed to restore the control room function, lights and the cooling at the No. 1 reactor, which is connected to the No.2 reactor by cable.

But rising cases of contaminated vegetables, dust and water have raised new fears and the government said it will decide by Monday on whether to restrict consumption and shipments of food from the quake zone.

Police said they believed more than 15,000 people had been killed by the double disaster in Miyagi prefecture, one of four in Japan's northeast that took the brunt of the tsunami damage. In total, more than 20,000 are dead or missing, police said.

The unprecedented crisis will cost the world's third largest economy as much as $248 billion and require Japan's biggest reconstruction push since post-World War Two. ( dailymail.co.uk )



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Single-sex lunches benefit school children


Single-sex lunches benefit school children - Single-sex lunches introduced in three schools in America's heartland have helped to reduce misbehavior among students and improve eating habits, authorities said.

The Wichita, Kansas middle schools, for students aged 11 to 14 years old, started the separate lunches for boys and girls to reduce teasing, rough-housing and flirting.

"The girls really seem to like it because they get their girl time without having to worry about boys," said Michael Archibeque, principal at Pleasant Valley Middle School. "And the boys don't show off for the girls. I think it's the perfect age for this."


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But what Achibeque likes most is that more students are finishing their food, which means less waste and fewer students having to study while hungry in the afternoon.

"I could not believe how many kids are actually eating," Archibeque said.

At Truesdell Middle School in Wichita, which has had single-sex lunches for two years, the positive impact lasts even after lunch is over, according to Principal Jennifer Sinclair.

The students seem to have adapted to the single-sex lunches, Sinclair said. When a mixed-gender lunch was offered recently as incentive to encourage school fundraising, the kids were not interested.

"They said, 'Yuck, why would we want that?'" Sinclair said.

It is not clear how many schools in the United State have single-sex lunches. A spokesman for the Kansas Department of Education said Wichita is the only school district she has heard of in the state with that policy.

Single-sex education is growing rapidly in the United States following evidence that boys and girls may do better academically and socially by being in separate classrooms.

In January, at least 524 public schools had classrooms that were single sex, up from about a dozen in 2002, according to the National Association for Single-Sex Public Education.

The association did not have figures on how many schools with co-educational classrooms have single-sex lunchrooms. School principals generally do not require approval of the school board or state departments of education to have single-sex lunches. ( yahoo.com )



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How to Not Change Your Spouse


How to Not Change Your Spouse. Loving our spouse is giving them the freedom to be who it is they are. When we love without WANTING anything in return, that is when we have accepted our spouse for being who they are, faults and all.

This of course, doesn’t include iniquitous behavior because if anyone is carrying on and regularly doing things in err against spouse or God, they certainly are not being the person they were meant to be. Therefore, this article does not apply to them.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change!

Love is an option; we select the degree of love and what kind of love we will give to our spouse through our actions. Love can sometimes be confusing and misleading, especially if couples are going through trials and tribulations in their marriage and are demanding of one another.

We think that if we could change our spouse, we’ll suddenly be happy and contented with our self. We try and change our spouse because we have stopped accepting them for who they are. Therefore, we cannot seem to love them either.

Pretty soon, we begin to place nasty conditions on the love we give to our spouse. If their faults irritate us bad enough we might not give ANY love at all. Sound familiar?

With no love left to give to our spouse, we might think we have nothing in common anymore? Who knows, maybe we begin to think we married the wrong person? Suppose the person we met last week at work is better than our spouse? Pretty soon we have brainwashed our self into believing our feelings.

No wonder more than half of all marriages end in divorce!

How about, God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change!

Couples waste so much of their time and energy trying to change each other. But is that really what needs to be done?

Marriage gurus think they have all the answers, and self help books goat and challenge couples to try and change for each other. But most of these people are divorced too! So what gives?

How a bout a little bit of acceptance! It works wonders.

Really, we just need to try and not let those little things bother us. Even some of the bigger things we can detach from. Forgive. Turn the other cheek. Do these things even when you don’t want to! Communicate the issue. Let your spouse know what bothers you, but don’t make it into a tirade.

Don’t scream and yell at them about how bad they are, instead find something positive to say about them. Make them feel good about them self. That’s what works!!

What about, “I’ll scratch your back, if you scratch mine”. This is good in marriage. There is nothing wrong with the “give and take” type rapport with each other. In fact, this is essentially how couples love each other.

No one can ever love unconditionally, without demands, bargains or expectations, never. You know why? Because we’re just human, we err, and we have faults. We need to accept that and move on with our life; hopefully that moving on includes our spouse.

The "give and take" process is a natural occurrence; it is instinctive to do something nice for our spouse because they have done something nice for us. We give and take all day long with most of our interaction in our daily lives; it’s part of life.

Most marriages work in this fashion; it is a good way for marriage to flourish and grow. It keeps couples on their toes as far as remembering to “give” of themselves periodically to their spouse EVEN when they don’t want to. That is love.

Now, there is a big difference when we put ultimatums on the table. Dishing out ultimatums is more of a “nasty conditional love” and is based on selfish thinking and usually stems from one or both spouses harboring resentment. "I'll love you, only if you will stop going out with your friends, etc."

This is not love, but a selfish person trying to get their way through manipulation and ultimatums!

Most marriages can be salvaged. We have to stop THINKING we can change our spouse. We really just need to try a little bit harder. Trying to let those things go that we can’t do anything about, and stop feeling resentful can make a big impact on the marriage.

Allow your spouse the freedom to just BE. Accept your spouse! Love!

Love is created by a person and not just is. Love takes action to accomplish. The value of the love we give to our spouse is based on how we are feeling at any given moment and time.

If we feel resentment or bitterness towards those we love, we'll inevitably love with resentment and bitterness, which is one way we place nasty conditions on our love.

"What is generated from our heart comes out in our actions".

Loving someone in the real sense of the word is allowing him or her to be who it is they are. When we learn to play the “give and take” game fairly is when can accept the person we are married to.

Bottom line, accept your spouse for who they are, give to your spouse without wanting anything in return, and it will eventually be given back to you.

This is how to not change your spouse. Acceptance Is LOVE.

( heavenministries.com )

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Help her overcome 'sex fears'


Help her overcome 'sex fears'. Very often men blame their female counterparts for not initiating sex or for being a passive player in the game of love, without really trying to find out the reason that’s keeping her cocooned.

Ever wondered why your otherwise raring-to-go-kind of wife, suddenly turns timid and overtly conscious of every move between the sheets that ultimately takes the charm away from sex. Any guesses why she remains detached from a passion soiree? Well, the answer lies in her anxieties, fears and inhibitions that maybe lurking in her mind, which surface every time she decides to take a sexual plunge.

Here’s a list of common bedroom fears of a woman. Take cues from these tips and help your babe shed al her inhibitions and bloom like never before...


Women's bedroom fears


Fear factor: Body issues


“Can we keep the lights off, darling?” This sweet request from your wife is a cue to her self consciousness about her ‘not-so-perfect’ body. “My wife always insisted me to put off the lights before every love-making session, while I wanted to have light all around. Her habit used to turn me off even before we stated. So, one day I decided to talk to her. It was then that I discovered that she wanted to hide her ‘extra-weight’ in the looming darkness,” shares Madhukar Banerjee, a Delhi-based pharmacist.


Be it her thundering thighs, ugly stretch marks or her flabby tummy - body issues are one of the most prominent fears in a woman's mind that can either drive her behind the darkness or make her averse to enjoying nakedness with her partner.

Get over it: ‘Talking it out’ is the most easiest and promising way to fight this fear. “Husband needs to communicate well to their wives that their love goes beyond their physical appearance. Also, he should build her confidence by showering her with compliments every now and then,” suggests relationship expert Smita Dogra. Encourage your lady love to join a health club or a yoga class and if she is hesitant then try and enroll with her so that she feels closer to you.Also, experts feel that watching your beau in work-out sessions can also act as a stimulus for a night of great sex.

Fear factor: S-expectations

Man’s expectations or s-expectations are unending. But very often they play a crucial role in making or marring their lady love's performance in bed. From expecting their wives to maneuver like the actress they saw in the porn-flick last night to wanting her to fulfill all their kinky fantasies irrespective of her choice and comfort, men and their sexual demands leave a woman jittery.

"My husband always wanted me to emulate his favourite Playboy gal in bed and that made me feel dirty and cheap. Besides, I am not some porn star and just could not understand why he could not love the real me? I resent sex with him now." confesses 34-year-old graphic designer Sravana Jha.

Get over it: Is it wrong for men to expect reciprocation from their partner? Well, not at all, says sex expert Mahinder Watsa adding, “While putting your s-expectations before your beloved, take care of what kind of a person she is. Not everyone may like what you are crazy about. Play the game of patience, rather than creating pressure on your woman. Get to know how she wants to go ahead and then choose a mid way. Let her bloom in her comfort zone for sometime and she’ll love to give you what you want in some time. After all, she also loves you.”

Fear factor: Inconsiderate partner

If a partner who expects too much is a fear for a woman, she equally dreads an inconsiderate partner. A man who’s indifferent to his wife’s needs when it comes to his own pleasure motives doesn’t score really well either. For instance, women love enjoying a prolonged foreplay, while men are direct attackers, which leaves women unsatisfied at the end.

Get over it : “Remember that love making becomes fun when both the partners participate in the pleasure pact equally. And this will happen only when partners also think about the other,” says Dogra. So, men should stop blowing the trumpet of their personal needs and pay heed to what their wife wants. “Women inversely must tell their partners what they love and like,” adds Dogra. Appreciate your man's moves if they turn you on and gradually you’ll realise he’ll give you just what you want.

Fear factor: The Big ‘O’

If performance anxiety leaves men weak in the knees, the ability to reach an ‘orgasm’ is what makes women equally apprehensive about their sexual abilities. Whether I’ll climax or not? Will I achieve bliss with him? Or for that matter what if I do not climax? These are some of the common questions that keep harrowing a woman’s mind before every night of love-making. Not just this, even a number of myths keep them off a satisfying session ultimately landing leading them to the conclusion that it’s impossible to have a satisfying sexual journey.

"Initially while my hubby had a satisfying orgasm, I failed to reach the big O and that made me feel horrible about myself," confesses 27-year-old lawyer Pragya Bhaduri adding, "but after our first six months of nervous love-making, I discussed the issue with my hubby and we realised that we were being very impatient about climaxing without enjoying the moments of foreplay. My hubby started understanding what were my moan zones and I started talking about his deepest sexual fantasies. Soon, I was able to share a better sexual intimacy with him."

Get over it: “The key to satisfying love-making is to relax and enjoy the journey rather than concentrating on whether you have reached climax or not,” suggests Watsa. Too much focus on the orgasm can divert your attention away from the pleasure and lead to frustration and a sense of stress every time you think of going for another session. “However, discussing with your man about the kind of moves and strokes that give you maximum pleasure can be another step towards bliss,” adds Watsa.( indiatimes.com )


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Chase Your Dream Job, Keep Your Day Job


Chase Your Dream Job, Keep Your Day Job. Corporate America relaxing the rules to let workers follow their passions. Meet Allen Sheffield. He has a lot of passions -- accounting, his family, helping disadvantaged kids. But in 1995 he realized he couldn't do it all.

His managers at Coopers & Lybrand in Detroit tried but were unable to give Sheffield the flexibility he needed to spend more time with his growing family and his local youth ministry. "As an inner-city kid growing up in Detroit, I wanted to give something back," he explains.

So, even though he was on the partnership track at one of the nation's biggest accounting firms he gave it all up. "It broke my heart, really. Since I was 15 I always wanted to be a CPA," he says.

He took a job in the audit department at Kmart instead that offered a scaled-back workload compared to the 65- to 80-hour weeks he was putting in at Coopers. But after four years working for the discount retailer, his calling to do more for the youth ministry where he was a board member brought him to yet another crossroads.

"I ended up sitting in church one Sunday night and I thought to myself, 'I can't wait until I retire so I can spend more time with the youth at the ministry,'" he recalls.

"A little voice inside of me said, 'Why wait? Why not do it now?'"

In 1999 he talked to his wife, and the couple decided they would start saving as much money as they could and pay down their debt so Sheffield could take an 18-month leave of absence from Kmart. Instead he worked at ministry, doing administrative functions for a fraction of the salary he and his family had become accustomed to.

"No more time shares and vacations to Florida," says Sheffield, who had three children at the time and a hefty mortgage.

The way the couple saw it, it would be a year-and-a-half deal, and then they could go back to the life they had before.

In July 2001, he realized there was no going back to his former life and he took over the helm as president of the ministry, called Joy of Jesus, a three-building campus on the east side of Detroit that offers computer training, tutoring, after-school programs and a Head Start program, as well as a camp in Kingston, Mich., for 400 kids every summer.

"This is a safe haven for kids on the streets of Detroit," he explains.

Giving up his corporate job meant the family, now including four children, had to make a lot of sacrifices, cutting back on Christmas presents and eating at home more. When times were really tough Sheffield admits he was late on a few mortgage payments. His salary at the ministry was $30,000 at the time, compared to his $95,000 annual take at Kmart.

Even though he felt fulfilled by his job at the ministry, he thought about his former life at Coopers, now known as PricewaterhouseCoopers, and stayed in touch with the partners there, talking to them on the phone and joining many former colleagues at golf outings, sometimes soliciting them for donations to the ministry.

In the summer of 2005, partner Mark Matthews asked if Sheffield wanted to meet for lunch to discuss the possibility of him coming back to the firm.

"I laughed at him," he recounted, because he had already tried and failed to get the kind of flexible schedule he needed. "Mark told me things had changed."

Sheffield decided to check it out, calling former co-workers and managers at the company to make sure they had indeed changed their ways when it came to work and family initiatives, and after discussing it with his wife, Paula, came up with a schedule that would fit his many obligations and proposed it to the managers at PricewaterhouseCoopers.

"I put my plan on the table," he says. He would work a 60 percent schedule, or three days a week during the fall and 100 percent in the winter, the busiest season for accounting.

"But during the summer months, when the camp was in full swing, from May to August, I'd work one day a week," he says.

The plan was accepted by the company and he went back to work at the accounting firm in September 2005, still maintaining the presidency of the youth ministry. He gets 60 percent of a full-time salary from PricewaterhouseCoopers, paid equally over 24 pay periods during the year.

His dream is to make partner at the firm.

"I would describe it as having my cake and eating it too," he says. ( msn.com )


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How Fantasy Life Can Get You a Real Job


How Fantasy Life Can Get You a Real Job. Online community Second Life becomes venue for recruiting, interviewing. Ray Giordano was able to land a job as a chef for a major food services company by not being himself.

In real life, the nearly 40-year-old Giordano has thinning hair, is 5 feet 6 inches tall, slightly overweight and sometimes stutters during job interviews.

In the virtual world of Second Life, he’s a strapping 6-foot-plus, muscular man named BellagioChef with a bushy head of hair and oodles of confidence when he comes face to face with a recruiter.

Giordano recently created a computer simulation of himself, called an avatar, allowing him to attend a virtual job fair, meet with a virtual recruiter and land a real job.

Your head is probably spinning. Mine was too when I first started investigating Second Life, owned by San Francisco-based Linden Labs. But this virtual community, which boasts of millions of inhabitants who meet and socialize, is also becoming a new way to get a job.

A few major companies have begun experimenting with this virtual world as an additional tool to find employees. In May TMP Worldwide, a recruiting firm, hosted its first virtual job fair called Network in World on Second Life.

“To date, more than 1,800 candidates have either registered for a NiW job fair and then applied for open positions, or have expressed interest in a position and then left their contact details for employers,” says Russell Miyaki, a vice president of the recruiting firm, adding that about 214 interviews have taken place and about four people have gotten jobs as a result.

Companies that have interviewed candidates at the virtual job fairs included Sodexho, the food management company that hired Giordano, as well as Microsoft and Verizon, among others.

"Competition on a global scale is forcing companies to look at innovative ways of both marketing and recruiting,” says Andrew Mallon, executive director of the Social Research Foundation, a consumer research firm that conducts opinion polls of Second Life members.

“Some industries will have a greater advantage or relevance in a virtual world like Second Life." he says. "For example, a high-tech recruiter in a virtual interview gets to see the initiative and interactive skills that job candidate put into creating the look of their avatar. But candidates should study the company in advance and come to the interview knowing what value they can bring to the employer. Following that standard rule still is a big plus. Then, instead of the old ‘Dress for Success,’ an avatar must ‘Impress for Success.’”

So you thought you had your hands full trying to figure out all the social networking groups out there like Facebook and Linkedin? Now you have to figure out how to dress fake computer people and how to impress hiring managers during virtual job fairs.

These job fairs are beginning to provide job seekers direct, albeit limited, access to recruiters at major companies. In most cases, a job applicant has to be invited in, but people looking for work can also just virtually walk over to a company’s virtual building in Second Life and drop off their resumes. You have to become a Second Life member first, although basic membership is free.

“When I first started looking into it I thought, ‘This is weird,’” says Giordano, who was a chef in Las Vegas and was looking for a job in California. But weird turned into a real job opportunity, and now he’s a Second Life cheerleader.

Giordano began his job hunt the old-fashioned way. He learned about a job opening at Sodexho online and sent off his resume. A recruiter then contacted him via a real telephone and suggested he join Second Life and attend an upcoming virtual job fair the firm was having on TMP’s island. (Many businesses have bought so-called islands in the virtual world of Second Life, for which they pay real money.)

Navigating through Second Life isn’t easy and requires some time playing around with your avatar to figure out how to make it move properly. It took Giordano about a day and a half to master the process.

He created his BellagioChef avatar fairly easily but the hardest part was moving the guy around. “I was walking into walls,” he says. But he got help from other avatars that move through the virtual world, communicating through instant messaging as they encounter each other.

When he was ready to attend the job fair in May he felt he had mastered most of the avatar’s movements and was able to follow the recruiter up a few flights of stairs to an office where he was virtually interviewed.

Not all the applicant-avatars Sodexho interviewed virtually were as adept as BellagioChef. There were some avatars that stood during the entire interview because they didn’t know how to sit down.

The recruiter who interviewed Giordano was Myra Rosa, also known as “Hula Bing,” her avatar’s name. “I originally spoke to Ray on the phone, and I thought he was a candidate I wanted to interview so I invited him to our career fair,” she says.

Giordano felt relaxed communicating with Myra through the avatars and instant messaging.

“I could joke around with her and she would laugh,” he recalls about the 90-minute interview. He realized things were going well when Myra invited a senior director to meet with him at the virtual office.

At the end of the meeting, Myra showed him out, and Giordano was feeling positive, although he admits he didn’t know how to shake her hand.

While the encounter may sound odd to many of us, some workplace experts say it represents the future of the job search. Joyce L. Gioia-Herman, a strategic business futurist, predicts virtual interviews will become a mainstay in 10 years, especially for the younger set.

But others believe virtual interviews with avatars are just another Internet flash in the pan.

"In my experience, virtual interviews are more gimmicks than anything,” says career counselor Anna Ivey.

“They can be fun and sometimes funny," she says, noting that avatars are not always easy to control and can sometimes be seen floating above their chairs.

"But I have yet to hear about a virtual interview where anything meaningful was accomplished," she says. "You're basically just instant messaging each other with some cute visuals thrown in for fun — not a great substitute for a real interview."

Even advocates of virtual job fairs see avatars as unprofessional.

“We instead emphasize professional networking," says Brent Arslaner with Unisfair, a virtual event provider that uses icons rather than avatars. "The easiest way to think of this is we use the most business-applicable aspects of Web 2.0 and social networking to enable attendees at our event to be able to network professionally. There are too many stories of people showing up naked to interviews in other virtual job fairs, so Unisfair doesn't go there.”

For Giordano, his meeting of the avatars with Sodexho was just the beginning of the interview and screening process.

Myra told Giordano that he would contact him by a real phone, and a few days later did just that. “She said I scored high on the interview and that other people in the system were watching,” he recalls. That led to a few more phone calls back and fourth, and then a real-life interview with a district manager on the West Coast in late July.

On Aug. 20, he started his job as a chef in the senior services division of Sodexho and he says he loves it so far.

Having an avatar that didn’t look quite like him may have been the clincher for Giordano. “It gave me more confidence,” he says. ( msn.com )


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Seven Job Search Traps


Seven Job Search Traps. Reports on the uncertainty of the current economy are dominating the headlines, and it's easy to allow those stories to weigh on you, especially if you are in the middle of drawn-out a job search. Instead of feeling helpless, remember that in any economy, companies need good people. And by fine-tuning your job-search strategy, you may be able to land a position that seems out of reach.

Consider these job-search traps and ways to avoid them:

You put all your eggs in one basket.

If you're like most job seekers, you probably heavily rely on the Internet to help you in your job search. While the Web can come in handy – as a way to research potential employers, determine which companies are hiring and locate positions specific to your area, for example – it should be just one of the many tools you employ. Also consider scanning trade and business publications, networking with professional contacts and registering with a staffing firm to broaden your search.

You don't make finding a job a full-time job.

Sending out a handful of résumés a week is a lot like tossing a single bottle into the ocean and hoping someone responds to the message you left inside. To find a job, you must cast a wide net. It's a numbers game, and the more inquiries you make, résumés you submit and employment interviews you go on, the better your chances of success. Of course, these activities all require a significant input of time and effort, so set aside at least a few hours each day to focus solely on your job search.

You're less than perfect.

Believe it or not, even one typo or grammatical goof in any of your application materials could be keeping you from finding a new position. With dozens or even hundreds of candidates to evaluate, a hiring manager won't think twice about passing on the applicant who has five years of "word professing" experience. In fact, according to a survey by our company, 47 percent of executives polled said a single typo on a résumé could eliminate a candidate from consideration for a job opening.

Ask another person to review your application materials before you submit them. Taking 10 extra minutes to make sure everything is error-free can save you from spinning your wheels by sending out a flawed résumé.

You don't follow up.

One easy way to stand out from the crowd of applicants: Follow up with the hiring manager after submitting your résumé. According to a survey by our company, 86 percent of executives said job seekers should contact a hiring manager within two weeks of sending a résumé and cover letter. Yet few candidates do. Often a brief phone call or e-mail reasserting your interest in the position and strong qualifications is enough to cause a potential employer to revisit your résumé.

You fix too many 'problems.'

The average job seeker who has been on the hunt for a while usually responds to periods of little success by taking a cold, hard look at his or her résumé, cover letter, sources of leads and interview techniques. That's the wrong approach. Evaluating all aspects of your job search and revamping each one is like taking 10 medications for a minor head cold: It's a lot of extra effort and could cause more harm than good.

A better approach is to diagnose your specific job-search ill and focus on strengthening just that one part. Say you've gone on several interviews, but you still haven't received any offers. The problem likely exists solely with your interview skills – after all, your résumé and cover letter are drawing heavy interest from employers. Making significant changes to your application materials could cause other companies to overlook you. Instead, reviewing questions you've been asked by hiring managers thus far and practicing your responses with a friend could be all you need to land the next job.

You don't network.

The simple truth is that networking is the most effective way to find a new job. A referral from someone you know is likely to land you an interview with a prospective employer or, at the very least, move your résumé to the top of the consideration pile. Even if your contacts are unaware of any immediate openings, they may be able to introduce you to others who do have job leads.

The best part about networking: It's easier to do than you think. Talk to friends, family members, former co-workers and supervisors, professionals you meet at industry events even your doctor and dentist about your job search. And, as more professionals are finding out, online networking sites like LinkedIn and Facebook can open up even more potential avenues for referrals.

You haven't registered with a staffing firm.

Registering with a staffing firm can dramatically increase the size of your network. The professionals who work for these companies have contacts throughout their industries and often know of job openings that are not being actively promoted. In addition, the staffing professional you partner with can handle much of the job-hunting legwork for you by distributing your resume, setting up employment interviews and keeping an eye out for promising opportunities.

Even during periods of economic uncertainty, there are jobs to be had, especially for candidates who have the right skills and qualifications. After all, companies are always looking for talented employees. By avoiding the above job-hunting traps, you'll be better able to demonstrate your value to potential employers and strengthen your chances of finding the job you want. ( msn.com )


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Do Out-of-the-Box Tactics Really Work?


Do Out-of-the-Box Tactics Really Work?. From résumés accompanied by shoes to get candidates' "feet in the door," to candidates sending cakes designed as business cards, hiring managers have seen it all when it comes to memorable job-seeker tactics.

Facing the most difficult job market in decades, job seekers are often advised to stand out among the competition by using creative and unconventional tactics to grab an employer's attention. While that advice is sound and good, it raises the question of whether or not these avant-garde approaches actually work.

Well -- it depends.

"I personally like those candidates that think outside of the box. As an HR professional, nothing makes me happier than knowing a candidate for a marketing position has, for example, created a brochure that is actually his or her résumé," says Vani Colombo, HR director for VIPdesk, a customer and concierge service. "I'm always amazed when candidates break the rules with class to stand out. It shows they are resourceful and willing to go the extra mile."

Tactics that worked

Vinh Nguyen, 30, is a great example of someone didn't want to fall prey to the same fate as other unsuccessful applicants -- but who stood out in a good way. Career Tiger, a service that helps people find a job through unique and unconventional methods, helped Nguyen come up with this tactic:

When asked a question during an interview with a health-care IT company, he surprised his interviewers by pulling out a whiteboard, writing down his thought process and taking control of the interview.

"Differentiating yourself from your competition makes sense. The idea is to show that you are a thought leader in your area and that your knowledge is valuable," Nguyen says. "It was awkward at first, but breaking away from the norm will pay off as long as you put in the work beforehand researching."

He got the job, and he is still working at the company as a project manager.

Dave Bowman, founder and chairman of TTG Consultants, a consulting firm, recalls a client who was a designer and really wanted to make an impression in an upcoming interview.

"As the interview began, he would wheel in a model of a previous theme-park exhibit he'd designed. He'd bring in with him three clowns who would be playing musical instruments. They would walk around the room for a minute or so, playing a song, and then exit, leaving the model for the interviewer to view in more detail," Bowman says. "The idea worked. His out-of-the-box tactics got him the job offer and at more money than he'd expected."

While both of these unconventional methods worked in these instances, many hiring managers say that alternative tactics often walk a fine line between admirable and creative and just plain inappropriate.

"I would consider a candidate who used a tactic if it was ethical and demonstrated a behavior that would be relevant to the job they were interested in," says Kim Lockhart, regional vice president for Spherion Corp., a recruiting and staffing provider. "For example, if someone was trying to get their name in consideration for a sales position and was using techniques to obtain an interview similar to the way they would approach securing a sale, I would consider it."

Tactics that didn't

Though many job seekers have successfully used creative job-search tactics, there seem to be an equal number of unsuccessful applicants, according to some hiring managers.

A few months ago, Carolyn Turner, a business coach in Portland, Ore., was helping a client hire an office manager.

"We had one applicant arrive unannounced at the office with a cherry pie she had baked that morning. She explained that she wanted to stand out from all the other applicants -- which she did, but just in a scary, stalkerish kind of way," Turner says. "I got a call from the business owner that day wondering what to do; no one wanted to eat the pie, but she left it in her own pie plate, which meant they had to get it back to her somehow. It was all just very awkward."

Turner says that having gone through hundreds of résumés for that position, it became clear that good candidates stand out just by how they present themselves in their cover letters and résumés.

"There's really no need to go over the top to get noticed," she says. "For the majority of businesses and positions, a really well-written cover letter is more than enough. You'd be surprised at how many badly written cover letters and résumés there are."

Don't try this at home

Christine Bolzan, CEO of Graduate Career Coaching, agrees with Turner and strongly advises against extreme tactics in the job search. She says many applicants who use these methods end up with a permanent "Do Not Hire" label in their company file.

Bolzan recalls two examples of what not to try in your job-search efforts, one of which includes gift giving.

"I've received flowers, wine, perfume and the most memorable of all -- a pair of Ferragamo shoes, which was a generous attempt at a ping following our brief conversation of great things to buy at Heathrow Duty Free," Bolzan says. "This is never appropriate. In fact, many companies have a policy against accepting gifts of any sort."

Another job search no-no? Stalking the interviewer, which Bolzan says she's encountered on several different levels, including people who have waited in career fair parking lots and others who've waited outside the office building.

"The worst of all stalkers I've encountered followed me into the pool at my hotel at 10 p.m. when I was trying to get a break from a long day at a large-scale recruiting event," Bolzan says. "The same event where I found over 100 different résumés secured by the wipers on my rental car windshield, and woke in the morning to even more résumés slipped under my hotel room door."

Remember the rules

Barring stalker behavior and lavish gifts, out-of-the-box tactics can work if you play your cards right. Greg Masiewich, manager of marketing and online communications for IQ Partners Inc., offers these tips:

1. Make it relevant

"Whatever tactic you choose to use, make sure it's relevant to the position you're applying for," Masiewich says. "If you choose a tactic that you think will grab a hiring manager's attention but doesn't tie into the job, the industry, or what you're about, then it can come off as just seeming strange and weird instead of creative and clever."

2. Don't go too far

"It's important to walk that fine line between different, yet not going too far with trying to stand out. If you do something that's too overly crazy, you can come off seeming a little creepy and weird instead of like a star applicant with a sense of determination," Masiewich says. "Remember, you want to grab their attention, not become a joke in the office."

3. A good idea can get you an interview, but not a job

"Remember that no matter the tactic you use to try and gain the attention of a hiring manager, at the end of the day they're still going to hire the person who they feel can do the job best," Masiewich says. "An out-of-the-box tactic might get you an interview, but it's still up to you to show you're not only determined, but also the best person for the job." ( msn.com )



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